Our mission is to serve those touched by the death of a baby through pregnancy loss, stillbirth, or in the first few months of life. Our purpose is to provide support toward healing at the time of or following the death of a baby. We provide education and resources on the needs and rights of bereaved parents and siblings. We strive to set a standard of perinatal bereavement care through a lifetime of support, hope and healing-one family at a time. For support, please contact us at 801-272-5355.
We look forward to celebrating Valentine's Day a few days early with fellow Share Parentswho understand and love one another!
We are so excited to have Dr. Matt Townsend back with us (www.matttownsend.com).
He will be speaking on the unique relationship experiences that can occur while on our grief journey following the death of our loved one(s).
The Gala is February 9, 2017, 6-9 PM at Loveland Living Planet Aquarium in Draper, UT.
We will be holding a silent auction with items such as jetBlue Airways tickets, Disneyland tickets, local sports tickets, hotel stays, gift baskets, and much much more!
Everyone who attends the Gala will automatically be entered into a raffle to win a fantastic gift basket put together by our amazing sponsors from the efforts of our incredible, hard-working and selfless volunteers!
Ticket sales are closed.
Photographer John Lloyd (www.capturedlightphoto.com) will capture the evening and provide a free, downloadable keepsake photo for you.
**Full Cash Bar available
*This Is A Formal Event*
Taking Care of Your Relationship After the Death of a Child
Written by Lisa Buell on Thursday, January 29, 2009
Valentine’s Day is a day for lovers, a time to celebrate our passion for one another. But what happens after our child has died? Our innocence is lost and it takes every ounce of strength to be civil or even interested in what our partners are saying.
What happens when our psychological energy is consumed with the memories of our child and it is taking everything we have just to get through the day? What happens when we can barely look at our spouse because it reminds us of the dream that was our life, a dream that evaporated the moment our child took a last breath?
What we do is follow our own breath, let it take us deep inside ourselves to find the love and gratitude for the history we have shared with our partner. We take this time to acknowledge that our partners experience the same love we have for our child; many of our memories are theirs as well.
This Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to remember the love we have for our child and the magnificence that our love created. Know that we have the ability somewhere deep within ourselves to rise above the loss just long enough to create something that comes from our hearts, even when they are broken: a collage of our family, a table decoupage with our pictures, a necklace engraved with our children’s names, a new remote control so our spouse can continue to zone out on the television, a quilt made from our child’s clothes, a rose bush in the garden that is our child’s favorite color.
Or we can wait until it’s Valentine’s Day and buy massive quantities of half-price chocolate and eat until we fall into a sugar coma, sleeping off the hangover as we hope to be more up for Valentine’s Day next year. We all have choices in this life, I believe in the human spirit and that we are all trying to do our very best… whatever that may look like. So do your best to love yourself and know that the love, passion, and energy you once felt for your partner will begin to flow yet again.
Lisa Buell is a writer, activist, mother of three and parent of two. She works with Children’s Hospice and Palliative Care Coalition, Partnership for Parents www.childrenshospice.org, as a parent advocate bringing a parent’s perspective to the development of palliative care programs and policies. To contact Lisa email her at firstname.lastname@example.org
Where do we meet?
Second Wednesday of each month at a local public Library. Please check our website for updates and locations.
February: Grief and Your Relationships at South Jordan Library
March: Despite How You Feel There IS Reason For Hope at Herriman Library
April: Ways To Put Effort Into Your Healing at South Jordan Library
Fourth Tuesday of each month at Jordan Valley Hospital, 2nd Floor Classroom, 3580 W. 9000 S.
February: Grief and Your Relationships
March: Despite How You Feel There IS Reason for Hope
April: Nurturing Self with special Mother's Day craft
Please visit the Support Meetings/Workshops tab on our website for full details.
Click HERE to view the January edition of the National Share Magazine.
This month's quote:
"Grief, I've learned, is really just love.
It's all the love you want to give but cannot.
All of that unspent love
gathers up in the corners of your eyes,
the lump in your throat,
and in that hollow part of your chest.
Grief is just love with no place to go."